Showing posts with label Holiday Season. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Holiday Season. Show all posts

Saturday

Why children believe (or not) that Santa Claus exists


(THE CONVERSATION) The holiday season is upon us, and so are its attendant myths, most prominent of which is the Santa Claus story. This is the time that many children are told about a man who lives forever, resides at the North Pole, knows what every child in the world desires, drives a sleigh pulled by flying reindeer and enters one’s house through a chimney, which most children don’t even have.

Given the many absurdities and contradictions in this story, it’s surprising that even young children would believe it. Yet research from my lab shows that 83 percent of five-year-olds think that Santa Claus is real.


Why?

An evolutionary advantage?

At the root of this paradox is a very basic question regarding the nature of the young child as an inherently credulous being – that is, believing everything he or she is told – versus a rational one.
The noted author and ethologist Richard Dawkins, in a 1995 essay, proposed that children are inherently credulous, and prone to believing in just about anything. He even suggested that it was an evolutionary advantage for children to believe.

He illustrated that quite convincingly with an example of a young child living near an alligator-infested swamp. His point was that the child who is skeptical, and prone to critically evaluating his parents’ advice not to go swimming in that swamp, has much less chance of surviving than does the child who unthinkingly heeds his parents’ advice.

This view of young children who believe easily is shared by many, including 18th-century philosopher Thomas Reid, and developmental psychologists, who argue that children are strongly biased to trust what people tell them.

Not very different from adults?

Yet research from my lab shows that children actually are rational, thoughtful consumers of information. In fact, they use many of the same tools as adults to decide what to believe.

So, what are some of the tools that adults use to decide what to believe, and what evidence is there that children possess them?

I’ll focus on three: One is attention to the context in which new information is embedded. A second is the tendency to measure new information against one’s existing knowledge base. And the third is the ability to evaluate the expertise of other people.

Let’s look first at context.

Imagine reading an article about a new species of fish – let’s call them “surnits.” Then imagine you’re reading this article in two very different contexts – one in which your doctor is late and you’re in the waiting room reading the article in a copy of National Geographic, the official magazine of a scientific society.

In another context, you encounter a report of this discovery while waiting in line at the grocery store and perusing the National Enquirer, an American supermarket tabloid. My guess is that the context surrounding your introduction to this new information would guide your judgment about the reality status of this new fish.

We essentially did this with children. We told them about animals they’d never heard of, like surnits. Some children heard about them in a fantastical context, in which they were told that dragons or ghosts collect them. Other children learned about surnits in a scientific context, in which they were told that doctors or scientists use them.

Children as young as four were more likely to claim that surnits really existed when they heard about them in the scientific context versus in the fantastical context.

How children use knowledge and expertise

One of the primary ways we, as adults, learn about new things is by hearing about them from others. Imagine hearing about a new kind of fish from a marine biologist versus from your next-door neighbor who often regales you with reports of his alien abductions. Your evaluation of the expertise and trustworthiness of these sources presumably will guide your beliefs about the true existence of this fish.
In another research project, we presented young children with novel animals that were either possible (e.g., a fish that lives in the ocean), impossible (e.g., a fish that lives on the moon) or improbable (e.g., a fish as big as a car). Then we gave them the choice to figure out on their own whether the entity really existed or to ask someone. They also heard reports from either a zookeeper (an expert) or a chef (a nonexpert).

We found that children believed in the possible entities and rejected the impossible ones. Children made these decisions by comparing the new information to their existing knowledge. For the improbable animals – ones that could possibly exist but were rare or odd – children were significantly more likely to believe in them when the zookeeper claimed they were real than when the chef did.

In other words, children use expertise, just as adults do.

It’s the adults

If children are so smart, why do they believe in Santa?

The reason is simple: Parents and others go to great lengths to support the Santa myth. In a recent study we found that 84 percent of parents reported taking their child to visit more than two Santa impersonators during the Christmas season.

The Elf on the Shelf, originally a children’s picture book about elves who inform Santa about children’s behavior around Christmastime, is now a multi-million-dollar franchise. And the United States Postal Service now promotes a “Letters from Santa” program in which it provides personal replies to children’s letters to Santa.

Why do we feel compelled to go to such great lengths? Why does Uncle Jack insist on climbing onto the roof on Christmas Eve to stomp around and shake jingle bells?

The answer is simply this: Children are not unthinkingly credulous and do not believe everything we tell them. So, we adults must overwhelm them with evidence – the bells on the roof, the live Santas at the mall, the half-eaten carrot on Christmas morning.

How children evaluate

Given this effort, it essentially would be irrational for children not to believe. In believing in Santa Claus, children, in fact, exercise their scientific thinking skills.

First, they evaluate sources of information. As ongoing research in my lab indicates, they’re more likely to believe an adult than a child about what’s real.

Second, they use evidence (e.g., the empty glass of milk and half-eaten cookies on Christmas morning) to come to a conclusion about existence. Other research from my lab shows that children use similar evidence to guide their beliefs about a fantastical being, the Candy Witch, who visits children on Halloween night and leaves new toys in exchange for candy.

Third, research shows that, as children’s understanding becomes more sophisticated, they tend to engage more with the absurditiesin the Santa Claus myth, like how a fat man can fit through a small chimney, or how animals could possibly fly.

Wondering what to tell your child?

Some parents wonder whether they are harming their children by engaging in the Santa myth. Philosophers and bloggers alike have mounted arguments against perpetuating the “Santa-lie,” some even claiming that it could lead to permanent distrust of parents and other authorities.

So, what should parents do?

There is no evidence that belief, and eventual disbelief in Santa, affects parental trust in any significant way. Furthermore, not only do children have the tools to ferret out the truth; but engaging with the Santa story may give them a chance to exercise these abilities.

So, if you think it would be fun for you and your family to invite Santa Claus into your home at Christmas time, you should do so. Your children will be fine. And they might even learn something.

This article is republished from The Conversation under a Creative Commons license. Read the original article here: http://theconversation.com/why-children-believe-or-not-that-santa-claus-exists-70518.

(The Conversation is an independent and nonprofit source of news, analysis and commentary from academic experts.)

source: lifestyle.inquirer.net

Thursday

Are You Missing Out on Cheaper Auto Insurance? Implement the Switch to Save Strategy


Tis’ the holiday season and that means sales everywhere you look. This includes sales and discounts in the ultra-competitive auto insurance industry, where with only a few minutes of online clicking and typing you could literally save hundreds on your next auto insurance policy.

During the holiday season auto insurance companies really ramp up their advertising and discounts because they know consumers are purchasing cars (new or upgrades) which need to be insured and the majority of auto insurance policies renew at the end and beginning of the year.  So take advantage of the lower premium prices by following these two simple steps:

1. Get a FREE, no obligation quote from the list of providers I have reviewed below. I get numerous emails from insurance brokers to list on this site, but the ones in the list below are the ones I currently recommend. They are nationally recognized, great companies and offer the best deals in my opinion. Other than AARP, I have had insurance will all these providers at some point. When you get the free auto insurance quotes, make sure you include similar characteristics (like deductibles, comprehensive coverage) so that you are comparing apples to apples.

2. Review the quotes to see which is the best deal for you, and then call your current provider. If you like your current insurance provider, encourage them to match or at least come close to matching the lowest price you found. Otherwise the decision is easy, switch and save! While it can be a little bit of a hassle to switch, saving a few hundred dollars can definitely ease the pain.

You will more than likely save money when/if you switch. Insurance companies know they have to provide you with a significant discount and reason to switch from your current provider. They call this an acquisition cost. Their hope is that when it comes time to renew, they can pass on higher premiums to you. That’s why you need to repeat the steps above and implement the switch to save strategy all over again.





Esurance - This insurance portal (recently acquired by All State) is now pretty well known thanks to it’s extensive advertising campaign on providing discounted car insurance quotes. They act like a broker between you and the other insurance companies and given their discount guarantee they are definitely worth visiting to get a free quote in this ultra competitive auto insurance market. Their one draw back is that they are not as strong as the other providers when it comes to multi-policy discounts. Getting or searching for insurance is ideal for those on a tight budget and happy to purchase/search online (i.e. no insurance agent!)


GEICO - This insurance company, owned by Warren Buffet’s Berkshire Hathaway, is well known thanks to it’s incessant advertising and actually does have one of the easiest to use websites, with clear guidance on key terms and coverage options.  I really liked their online feature that automatically obtained my vehicle and driver information from motor vehicle departments and other groups. This allowed me to get a faster and more accurate quote, without having to type in all my car information. It took me around 5 minutes to get a premium estimate (broken down by each insurance item) that I could easily customize to see what impacts changing one or more factors would have on the premium


USAA Auto Insurance - USAA membership is open to U.S. military service members, veterans who have honorably served, and their eligible family members. When you join, you get free financial resources, special savings and award-winning service. By switching to USAA Auto Insurance, you can save an average of $409 per year. If you are ex-military or an eligible family member this is definitely a company you need to get a quote from. I also like their flexible payment option feature which comes at no additional charge


“Safe Drivers Save up to 45% with Allstate” is the claim the company makes. So I went and tried it for myself. Unfortunately, I got well below the average savings but that's probably because I continually review my insurance and switch if I can save more than $50 by changing insurance providers. But I do think if you have multiple policies and are in certain associations/groups you could do quite well with them. Definitely worth getting a free quote from All State as a comparison point if nothing else, given that they are one of the largest insurance companies out there.


AARP (for drivers over 50) - If you are a senior citizen then it is hard to beat insurance offers provided by the AARP. The rates are up to 15% lower than average for eligible drivers with good driving records. If you (or your spouse) are over 50, I would definitely get an online quote from AARP to see if you can benefit from a seniors discount. They also have a great in-person customer service line if you have questions and feel more comfortable talking to a real person to get a quote or sign up for an insurance policy

source: savingtoinvest.com



Sunday

World’s tallest floating Christmas tree lit up in Rio de Janeiro


The world's largest floating Christmas tree was lit in Rio de Janeiro Saturday (November 29), officially kicking off the holiday season in the beachside city.

Close to 200,000 tourists and locals flocked to the Rodrigo de Freitas Lagoon to watch the 542 ton, 85-meter-tall (279 feet) tree illuminate in a burst of color and lights.

The crowd itself lit up as a spectacular fireworks display coincided with the 19th annual tree lighting ceremony.

This year's theme was a "Christmas of Light" full of "wishes for all."

The tree is lit with 3.1 million micro light bulbs, 2,150 strobe effects, 120,000 meters (393,700 feet) of light hoses and 100 LED reflectors.

The base of the massive structure rests on 11 floats that form a 30 meter-by-30 meter (98 foot-by-98 foot) base to support the metal tree.

The annual celebration has become a mainstay for tourists who came out in droves along with thousands of locals who came to be part of the celebration.

"I loved it. It was marvellous, the show. Everything was lit up. It was perfect," Gilberto Luiz said.

"It was very exciting. It's a wonderful time of year of peace and togetherness and it's truly a celebration worth coming out to see… every year if you can," another spectator, Sueli Salles said.

The Christmas tree was first erected in 1996 and its lighting has become Rio's third biggest tourist event after Carnival festivities and New Year's Eve on Copacabana beach.

The Guinness Book of Records lists the installation as the world's largest floating Christmas tree. — Reuters

source: gmanetwork.com

Saturday

7 Black Friday Credit Card Tips You Can’t Afford to Miss


Admit it: You can’t wait to get started on your holiday gift shopping. But if you’re planning to lean heavily on your credit card for Black Friday sales, the Nerds have a few important tips you can’t afford to miss.

Check out the details below for everything you need to know to swipe smart this holiday season (and beyond):

1. Shop with a rewards credit card to rack up serious points

 

The most important thing you can do to make the most of this holiday shopping season is select a card that provides a steady return on your spending in the form of points, miles, or cash back. Then, use it consistently. After all, you’re going to be shelling out big bucks anyway – you might as well get rewarded for it!

2. Use bonus malls to score even more rewards when you shop online

 

 A lot of people forget about the online shopping portals (often known as “bonus malls”) operated by their credit card issuers. If you choose to make your online purchases through these platforms, you stand to earn even more rewards on your credit card spending.

 

One of the best bonus malls out there is the one operated by Discover, known as Discover Deals. If you use your Discover it® and shop through Discover Deals, you could score extra cash back, a statement credit, or instant savings at checkout. This is a great way to help your dollars go the extra mile this holiday season.

3. Use your Chase Freedom® - $200 Bonus for department store shopping

 

If you’re planning to buy a lot of gifts at department stores this Black Friday, be sure to use your Chase Freedom® - $200 Bonus. With it, you’ll earn 5% cash back until December 31, 2014 at select department stores, aw well as Amazon.com and Zappos.com (up to $1,500 spent). Plus, you’ll earn unlimited 1% cash back on all other purchases.

 

And don’t forget: If you also have the Chase Sapphire Preferred® Card, you can transfer all the Ultimate Rewards points you’re racking up with the Chase Freedom® - $200 Bonus over to it and cash them in for travel. Talk about a win-win!

4. Look into your credit card issuer’s extended warranty policy, pronto

 

Lots of people buy electronics on Black Friday, and many retailers try to hock extended warranty coverage at unsuspecting consumers. But it’s highly likely that your credit card already has your back. Every major network (Visa, MasterCard, American Express and Discover) offers some kind of extended warranty on most purchases made with the card.

However, exclusions apply and every card provides slightly different benefits. Consequently, placing a quick call to your card’s customer service line to see what it covers before you hit the mall is a smart idea.

5. Keep a watch on your balance

 

Holiday cheer can be a powerful force, but don’t let it cause you to overspend on your plastic. Using more than 30% of the available credit on any of your cards at any time during the month could do damage to your credit score. If you’re starting to get close to that threshold, make a payment as soon as you can.

6. Use a card that offers price protection to be sure you’re getting the best deal

 

According to a 2014 NerdWallet analysis, Black Friday “deals” aren’t always the absolute lowest prices of the season. To ensure that you’re getting the best price on every gift you buy, shop with a card that offers price protection. MasterCard, Discover, and Citi all provide the opportunity to get some a refund if an item you’ve bought with your card drops in price within a certain window of time.

Again, this functions slightly differently from card to card and there are restrictions to keep in mind. Be sure to read your plastic’s terms and conditions carefully for the ins and outs of its price protection program.

7. Be sure to pay your bills on time

 

If you’re juggling several credit cards to maximize rewards on your holiday shopping, take steps to stay organized. Missing a payment on one of them could cause your credit score to take a serious hit, so set calendar alerts for your billing due dates. This way, you’ll be getting the best deals with your cards and keeping your credit in good shape.

source: nerdwallet.com

Wednesday

Tourists, pilgrims throng Bethlehem for Christmas


BETHLEHEM, West Bank — Thousands of Christian pilgrims from around the world packed the West Bank town of Bethlehem for Christmas Eve celebrations on Tuesday, bringing warm holiday cheer to the biblical birthplace of Jesus on a cool, clear night.

The heavy turnout, its highest in years, helped lift spirits in Bethlehem as leaders expressed hope that the coming year would finally bring the Palestinians an independent state of their own.

"The message of Christmas is a message of peace, love and brotherhood. We have to be brothers with each other," said Latin Patriarch Fouad Twal, the top Roman Catholic cleric in the Holy Land, as he arrived in town.

Excited tourists milled about the town's Manger Square, stopping in restaurants and souvenir shops and admiring a large, illuminated Christmas Tree. Marching bands and scout troops performed for the visitors in the streets, and on a stage next to the tree.

Will Green of New York City, along with his wife, Debbie, and their 2-year-old daughter Daphne were among the crowds of people who greeted Twal's motorcade as he entered town from nearby Jerusalem.

Green said that being in Bethlehem for Christmas was a dream come true. "All the stories that we grew up with. It's here. It's part of our life. We heard them in the family, school and church. This is the birthplace," he said.

Green slowly pushed a stroller and his wife held their daughter as they followed a crowd toward the Church of the Nativity, built on the site where Christians believe Jesus was born.

Palestinian dignitaries greeted Twal at the entrance of Bethlehem. His motorcade crawled through the town's narrow streets as he stopped to shake hands and greet the throngs of visitors. It took him nearly 90 minutes to make the short trip to celebrate Midnight Mass at the Church of the Nativity compound.

Hundreds of people packed the compound for the service. Palestinian President Mahmoud Abbas, the European Union's foreign policy chief, Catherine Ashton, and Jordanian Foreign Minister Nasser Judeh were among the dignitaries in attendance.

In his homily, Twal addressed Abbas, telling the president he prays for a "just and equitable solution" for the Palestinians. Twal, himself a Palestinian, also expressed sympathy for the plight of the Palestinians, particularly families with relatives imprisoned by Israel or those who have suffered as a result of the conflict with Israel.

"The world is living through a long night of wars, destruction, fear, hate, racism and, at the present time, cold and snow," he said. Lamenting strife in Africa, Asia and the Middle East, he also urged worshippers "not to forget our own problems here: the prisoners and their families who hope for their release, the poor who have lost their land and their homes demolished, families waiting to be reunited, those out of work and all who suffer from the economic crisis."

Yet Twal called on people not to despair. "We are invited to be optimistic and to renew our faith that this land, home of the three monotheistic religions, will one day become a haven of peace for all people," he said.

"Oh Holy Child, God of goodness and mercy, look with kindness on the Holy Land and on our people who live in Palestine, in Israel, in Jordan and all the Middle East. Grant them the gift of reconciliation so that they may all be brothers — sons of one God," he said.

The number of visitors to Bethlehem remained below the record levels of the late 1990s, when Israeli-Palestinian peace efforts were at their height.

Following a Palestinian uprising that began in 2000, the numbers plunged. But thanks to a period of relative calm, they have been steadily climbing in recent years -- and got an extra push this year thanks to the resumption of peace talks.

"Our message is a message of justice and peace," said Palestinian Tourism Minister Rula Maayah. "We Palestinians are seeking peace and we deserve to have peace and our children deserve to live in peace."

Maayah said the number of visitors to Bethlehem was expected to jump by about 14 percent from last year.

A spokesman said 10,000 foreign visitors had entered town by the early evening, slightly higher than last year. Israel's Tourism Ministry, which coordinates the visits with the Palestinians, said the number could reach 25,000 during the holiday season.

Despite the Christmas cheer, Mideast politics loomed in the background. In order to enter Bethlehem, Twal's motorcade had to cross through the hulking concrete separation barrier that Israel built during the uprising. Israel says the barrier is needed to keep attackers from entering nearby Jerusalem, but Palestinians say the structure has stifled the town and stolen their land.

Maayah said that the barrier, along with nearby Israeli settlements and Israeli control of archaeological sites in the West Bank, has made it difficult to develop the tourism sector.

In addition, few Palestinians seem to think that the current round of peace talks will bear fruit. U.S. Secretary of State John Kerry relaunched the talks last summer, but there have been no signs of progress.

Israel carried out a series of airstrikes and other attacks Tuesday in the Gaza Strip in retaliation for the deadly shooting of an Israeli civilian who had been working along the border. The fighting, which left a 3-year-old Palestinian girl dead, was the heaviest in more than a year.

Christmas also serves as a reminder of the dwindling numbers of Christians who live in the Holy Land. Over the decades, tens of thousands of Christians have left, fleeing violence or in search of better opportunities overseas. Christians now make up a tiny percentage of the population.

Bethlehem is now only one-third Christian, with most residents Muslim. In an annual gesture, Israel permitted some 500 members of Gaza's small Christian community to leave the Hamas-ruled territory and cross through Israel to attend the celebrations in Bethlehem.

But for one night at least, residents and visitors brushed aside their troubles to celebrate the holiday.

Nick Parker, a student from Georgia Tech University, said he was enjoying the food and making friends with local residents and fellow travelers.

"It's special to be here where Jesus was born," he said. "It's a special opportunity, once in a lifetime." — AP

source: gmanetwork.com

Thursday

Blake Shelton Told Kelly Clarkson's Fiancé: 'You Need to Marry This Girl!'


Kelly Clarkson has someone she owes an extra special thank-you to this holiday season.

The Grammy-nominated pop star, 30, wouldn't necessarily be closing out 2012 as an engaged woman if it weren't for Blake Shelton.

"I told Brandon [Blackstock], 'Man, you need to grow up and figure out that you need to marry this girl,'" Shelton, 36, who is managed by Clarkson's fiancé, told Hollyscoop. "You need to get your head out of your ass and ask that girl to marry you."



The Voice coach was so adamant about the proposal that he even offered up quite the personalized present.

"I am going on the record saying I will do the music at the wedding or whatever [they] want to do," Shelton said. "I'll be that guy. I will play for four hours if I have to."

Clarkson, who announced her engagement on Saturday via Twitter, calls herself "so lucky [to be] with the greatest man ever."

"I'm so glad he did [it],” adds Shelton. "He is one hardheaded dude – and she's the best thing to happen to him."

source: people.com